Say It!

The app for better conversations

Questions that bring you closer.

Say It! is the question game for dates, couples, friends and family: conversation starters, the famous 36 questions to fall in love, and a Match mode that shows how well you really know each other.

Free to start · One-time purchase · No subscription · No ads

Say It! home screen with the Play, Talk and Match modes

Three modes. One goal: real connection.

A casual game night, a deep talk for two or a little contest – Say It! has the right mode for the moment.

  • Play

    Discover questions playfully

    Read a card out loud, everyone who has done it raises a hand – and then the stories start. The fastest way to get a group laughing and talking.

    • Classic
    • Fun
    • Friends
    • Family
    • Adventure

  • Talk

    Start deeper conversations

    Hand-picked conversation starters for every mood: from a first date to a 3 a.m. deep talk. Take turns, listen, get closer.

    • 36 Questions
    • Date Night
    • Deep Talk
    • Get to Know

  • Match

    Find out what matches

    Either-or questions for two: one player picks secretly, the other guesses. The result screen shows how well you know each other.

    • 50+ either-or questions
    • Result with hit rate
    • Play again

Everything a good conversation needs

No clutter, no distractions. Just questions that spark something.

  • The 36 questions to fall in love

    The famous questions from Arthur Aron’s psychology study – in the right order, set by set.

  • Daily question

    A new question for the two of you every day. A small ritual that keeps you close in everyday life.

  • Player names & avatars

    Optionally add names and illustrated avatars and the app tells you whose turn it is. Never required.

  • Love Check: how do you show love?

    15 either-or questions reveal how each of you feels love most – with concrete everyday ideas and optional reminders.

  • Buy once, play forever

    Start for free, unlock everything with a single purchase. No subscription, no ads, no hidden costs.

  • Offline & private

    Works without internet, collects no data and needs no account. Available in English, German and Spanish.

This is Say It!

Warm, calm and reduced to the essentials – so you stay in the conversation, not on the screen.

  • Say It! home screen with Play, Talk and Match
    Three modes, one home
  • Talk mode category selection with 36 Questions, Date Night and Deep Talk
    The right question for every mood
  • Question card from the 36 questions to fall in love
    The 36 questions, set by set
  • Match result with hit rate and answer comparison
    How well do you know each other?
  • Daily question in Say It!
    A new question every day

For every moment that matters

  • First date

    No more awkward silence. Date-night questions that spark curiosity instead of small talk.

  • Couples

    The 36 questions, deep talk and the daily question: closeness, even after years.

  • Friends

    Game rounds where the best stories finally come out.

  • Family

    Questions everyone can join – at the dinner table or on the road.

Frequently asked questions

What is Say It!?

Say It! is a question game app for iOS and Android. It gets people talking: with playful cards, deep conversation starters, the 36 questions to fall in love and a Match mode where you guess each other’s answers.

Is Say It! free?

The download is free and several categories can be played right away. A one-time purchase unlocks all categories and questions permanently. There is no subscription and no advertising.

Who is Say It! for?

For dates, couples, groups of friends and families. The categories range from light party questions to honest deep-talk questions, so you set the mood yourselves.

What are the 36 questions to fall in love?

A sequence of questions from a study by psychologist Arthur Aron. Across three sets the questions become gradually more personal and create surprising closeness in a short time. Say It! plays them in exactly that order.

How does Match mode work?

One player secretly picks an answer to an either-or question, then passes the phone and the other player guesses. After ten questions the result shows how many matches you had and where you differ.

Does the app work offline, and what about my data?

Say It! works completely without internet. The app needs no account, collects no data and shows no ads. Everything stays on your device.

What is the Love Check?

A short check with 15 either-or questions: which feels more like love to you? The result shows whether you feel love mostly through words, time together, acts, little gifts or closeness – and compares both of you when you play as a couple. It comes with concrete everyday ideas and optional daily or weekly reminders.

Which languages are available?

The app and all questions are available in English, German and Spanish. You can switch the language any time in the settings.

Ready for the first conversation?

Download Say It! and ask each other a question tonight that you have never asked before.